It took me forever to go to sleep last night…I had so much swirling around in my head…I couldn’t shut my brain off…church was AMAZING yesterday…how awesome it is to be in the midst of God doing amazing things through His children…! We had our annual Gift for Christ at Christmas offering yesterday…and well exceeded our goal…flew past it really! Looking at the small congregation of people that are part of this church and seeing how big their hearts for others…how trusting they are in God to provide for their needs so that they freely give to others sends me to my knees with my hands raised in praise for the awesomeness of a Mighty God!! What an honor to be a minute part of God’s plan!!
Meanwhile…in another part of my brain…
I am watching my son turn into a teenager…with the good and bad that goes with it…he’s currently being paid for a pet sitting job at our neighbors house…3 cats, a dog and a lizard…and mail…I have to make sure that I don’t do the job for him…it would be easy to say “sure hang out with your friends, I’ll let the dog in tonight…” but what am I teaching him…? And if he lets his sister help him, then I need to make sure he compensates her for her time…and make sure he understands why he should not to mention why he should NOT roll his eyes at me when I mention it! (One of the bad side effects of teenagerdom :-} )…on a side note, I am so glad that he actually decided to spend time playing basketball with his friends yesterday…he’s never been a big sportsman…and it’s great to see him play and have fun doing it…even if he’s “not very good” to quote him…I love that he is willing to try for the sake of having fun…this is a new thing for him and I’m grateful for his friends and leaders that are bringing out the adventurer in him!!
Still…as the tornado swirls about…the girls come to mind…my middle child, the natural athlete, with a competitive streak and a very hard head is really needing to learn how to be a good sport…I will say she is learning what it means to be a good teammate, and that helping others succeed for the good of the team is as important as doing well yourself…but she gets so frustrated (angry even) if she thinks she needs to win a game of front yard football and doesn’t…part of it is wanting to be better than the boys…she sees herself as really tough, and really good…and would take on Jevon Kearse and get mad if he stopped her. Mad is not quite the right word…hmm, all I can think to describe her anger is a cartoon I saw of Calvin & Hobbs, where Calvin got really frustrated and in the bubble over his head was just a great big scribble…she gets a big scribble in her head and can’t think straight or listen and always gets herself in trouble…I can SO remember being that way as a child…getting so angry that all I could see was the big scribble in my head…and all I could think that would make it go away was getting what I thought I needed…now this was short-lived…as it is in her…she’ll cool off (after having driven her parents to the point of insanity) and won’t even remember that she ever had a scribble…what? I wasn’t angry? I didn’t get mad…when? Oh, yea…that was ages ago…(10 minutes ago)…let’s make some cookies! How do we get her to control her temper so that the scribble never takes over the brain…?? I suppose being spirit controlled is what made it happen for me…so lots of prayer for her to learn to be spirit controlled…! My 4 (going on 30) year old…spends most of her time in her laboratory (bedroom) devising an evil plan to take over the hearts and minds of those in her path with cuteness…so far it’s working with most people…I have not yet succumbed to her power completely…and believe my will is stronger…but she does have a mighty arsenal at her disposal…and those victims that have already fallen are like her little minions always telling me to “give in”…”she’s not that bad”…”but she’s so cute”….NOOOO!!! I will not be shaken…she will bend to the will of her parents who know what’s best for her…which does not include candy in the bed, tv all night, or surviving on chocolate milk alone!! I will prevail!!
And then there’s the smaller thoughts in the swirling tornadic activity of my brain…the must do laundry tommorow, need to buy milk, wrap the packages, finish Christmas shopping, (do I need more gift wrap or tape?) I must clean my bathroom, mop the kitchen, don’t forget to homeschool, have you read to McKenna today? Look in that new catalog for a bible curriculum for the kids, do I really on have 11 days left til Christmas? Did they say it was gonna snow again…Don’t forget to check on so & so tommorow, is there anyone else I need to check on? Am I doing enough for others?…seems like you focus a lot on yourself Mary Bea…do I have a show tommorow night? Does JR have his bible study tommorow? I really should put a wreath on my door at least…am I really too busy to put lights outside for the kids??… Stuff like that, swirling swirling about…until I think about 2am…the swirling either died down, or I passed out from the dizziness…I’m not sure I’ll ever really be sure which it was!! (Whew, aren’t y’all glad you aren’t in my head…)
Speaking of Calvin and Hobbs…here’s a little Christmas giggle!